MAKING HALAL INTO HARRAM AND HARRAM INTO HALAL: WHAT BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN ISLAM MEANS?

MAKING HALAL INTO HARRAM AND HARRAM INTO HALAL: WHAT BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN ISLAM MEANS? 

Praise be to Allah :

Firstly:

Allah clear said, if someone make halal into Harram and vis-versa & believing himself or follow such person nothing but worshiping yourself or worshiping them. pounder over the verse of the Qur'an.

"They took their rabbis and their monks to be their lords besides Allah, and the Messiah, son of Maryam "

[Al-Qur'an ch 9 Verse 31]

 Adi bin Hat im, may Allah be pleased with him, who became Christian during the time of Jahiliyyah. When the call of the Messenger of Allah reached his area, ` Adi ran away to Ash-Sham, and his sister and several of his people were captured. The Messenger of Allah f reed his sister and gave her gif ts. So she went to her brother and encouraged him to become Muslim and to go to the Messenger of Allah . ` Adi, who was one of the chiefs of his

people (the t ribe of Tai') and whose father, Hat im At -Ta'i, was known for his generosity, went to Al-Madinah. When the people announced his arrival, ` Adi went to the Messenger of Allah wearing a silver cross around his neck. The Messenger of Allah recited this Ayah; (They took their rabbis and their monks to be their lords besides Allah). ` Adi commented, "I said, ` They did not worship them. ''' The Prophet said,(Yes they did. They (rabbis and monks) prohibited the allowed for them (Christ ians and Jews) and allowed the prohibited, and they obeyed them. This is how they worshipped them. )

[Imam Ahmad, At -Tirmidhi and Ibn Jarir At -Tabari recorded a Hadith via several] chains of narrat ion, from ` Adi bin Hat im] Refer Tafsir By Israr Ahmed.

This Verse of Qur’an and Hadith made thing very crystal clear that, No one in the world has right or authority to declare Halal thing into harram or visa versa. If anyone doing or following someone then she/he is worshipping him/her self & worshipping them.

“Have you seen the one who takes as his god his own desire? Then would you be responsible for him?”

[Al-Qur’an ch 25 Verse 43]

It’s Allah only has the authority to decide what is Harram and what is Halal for the human being and no one else, whose who contradict with it surly they are on the dark side.

Secondly:

Allah clearly described in the Qur’an, to whom we can marry, as don’t fall into the category of Maharram.

“Prohibited to you (For marriage) are:- Your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, Mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (Who gave you suck), foster-sisters; your wives' mothers; your step-daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom ye have gone in,- no prohibition if ye have not gone in;- (Those who have been) wives of your sons proceeding from your loins; and two sisters in wedlock at one and the same time, except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful;-

Also (prohibited are) women already married, except those whom your right hands possess: Thus hath Allah ordained (Prohibitions) against you: Except for these, all others are lawful, provided ye seek (them in marriage) with gifts from your property,- desiring chastity, not lust, seeing that ye derive benefit from them, give them their dowers (at least) as prescribed; but if, after a dower is prescribed, agree Mutually (to vary it), there is no blame on you, and Allah is All-knowing, All-wise.

[Al-Qur’an ch 4 Verse 23-24]

   Just calling someone Brother In Islam and Sister In Islam, they don’t become your biological siblings, yet they are “Na maharram to us and very well marriage can take place”

If you read the Qur’an, there is a chapter revealed as Surah Mujadilah means “The Debate or confrontation”  A woman Came to the prophet and arguing , concerning of her husband.

  At the time of Jahiliyyah, people believed that   if Man calls his wife as “"You are like my mother's back." She will be treated as his mother, and immediately the relation between them nullified as husband and wife.

In the Same chapter 58 Verse 2 Allah says,

  Those among you who make their wives unlawful (Az-Zihar) to them by saying to them "You are like my mother's back." They cannot be their mothers. None can be their mothers except those who gave them birth. And verily, they utter an ill word and a lie. And verily, Allah is Oft-Pardoning, Oft-Forgiving.

Further Allah says in the Qur’an

 “Allah has not made for any man two hearts in his (one) body: nor has He made your wives whom ye divorce by Zihar your mothers: nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way.

[Al-Qur’an ch 33 Verses 4]

  These verses of qur’an made very categorically stating,  which means “ Calling someone(who is Na Maharram) Mother, Father, Brother, Sister, uncle, etc… don’t become your Maharram, yet they are Na Maharram and We should be treat them as Na Maharram and have to take care of all cautious as dealing  with  as Na Maharram only.

If you believe that Just calling Sister and Brother will become as your Maharram means you going back to the Time jahiliyah & you believe that Men having a two Hearts.  This Jahiliyah practices very much prevalent  amoung the hindus in our country, “Moh Bola Bhai, Moh Bola Bahen, Sister in Believe and Brother in Believe “ And they actually believe in it, Seem like you are influenced with Non Muslims practices and Beliefs.  

Finally: Conclusion

 

   No one has right to force any women to marry against her will, Allah says in the Qur’an

  “O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will”

[Al-Qur’an ch 4 Verse 19]

  If you have received a marriage proposal from whoever that brother (Allah knows the best), if you don’t like then make it clear that, you don’t want to marry, that enough but refusing Marrying proposal based on your believe that “you called him Brother and He called you sister” So we are brother & sister now, it absolutely a lame excuse & invalid point, & against Islam and counted as Sin because  in Islam for having such believe because you have no rights at all to consider it as Sin, If you don’t like something, it does not means it become harram in Islam Or if you like something harram, it does not means it become Halal in Islam  for you ?

Change yourself as per Islam but have that false believe that Islam will change as per you wish.

 “They have no protector other than Him; nor does He share His Command with any person whatsoever." 

[Al-Qur’an ch 18 Verse 26]

”So perchance you (Muhammad SAW) may give up a part of what is revealed unto you, and that your breast feels straitened for it because they say, "Why has not a treasure been sent down unto him, or an angel has come with him?" But you are only a warner. And Allah is a Wakil (Disposer of affairs, Trustee, Guardian, etc.) over all things.

[Al-Qur’an ch 11 Verse 12]

Allah knows the best.

Article written by Mohammed Asif Ali.