Dear Muslim Men why don’t you marry Revert Sister/Girl?

Dear Muslim Men why don’t you marry Revert

 Sister/Girl?

 

      As per the report among all reverts, close to 70% are the women embracing Islam.  And Allah says in the Qur’an “If you failed to do your job, we will substitute you by another group of people and they will not be like you” Quran chapter 47 verses 38.  

     Before get into details, I am not saying not to marry girls who born in Muslim families, if you find any good Islamic sister Allhamdulillah go ahead and marry her, whether she is a rich, poor or maiden or widow. 

     Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) said to marry a women based on four conditions and top and foremost is marry a woman who is “righteous” woman,  Sahi bukhari Hadith 5090, basically a strong Islam practicing Muslim girl. You are not only choosing life partner for yourself but you are choosing a Mother for your children, the best gift to your children giving them a good mother, who guide them and up bring them with inculcating Islamic ethos, on Islamic values. 

     The current scenario in across the India highly alarming state of condition, everyday dozens of reports coming about Muslim girls born in Muslim family becoming murtad, leaving Islam like arrow from the bow, having multiple relationship with Na Maharram, misuse of Hijab/ Burqha, tik tok videos, insta, dancing on music, deceiving their parents & getting involved in all sort of unIslamic activities. It’s evident and clear that majority of the girls born in Muslim families, they are took Islam for granted, they are no more following Islam, practically they distance themselves from Islam. when these people who are not faithful to our Creator, how come they will be faithful to his creation? Even they getting married to a Muslim Man out of family or society pressure, what are the chances they will be good with their husband’s?  Will they up bring Muslim children in Islamic values? Answer is “NO. It’s time to break this cycle/trend.

    “Wicked women are for wicked men, and wicked men are for wicked women. And virtuous women are for virtuous men, and virtuous men are for virtuous women.”[Quran ch 24 Verses 26]

    Now this is the perfect time & conditions for being Muslim Man, need go out of the box, think about & give preference to marrying revert Muslim girls or girl from revert families, they are more Islamic and possess more knowledge of Islam and more fearful and obedience to Allah, they don’t follow bidha, they are very strong in their faith and stick to core teachings of Islam & Tawheed, they practice more Hijab than the girls born in Muslim families. We Muslim Men need to break this taboo in our families, hesitant or unwillingness to get their son’s marrying reverted girl, whereas we need to have fresh blood in our body to keep ourselves healthy, we must give chance to revert sisters, they are the future of Islam, future of Muslims.

   Dear Muslim men, we don’t need a wali for marrying Muslim girl in Islam & if you are living & settled in foreign country or if you come across good practicing revert sister, try to marry her, she is the one who sacrificed everything for the sake of Allah, think about your children, she would be one of the best version of mother In Shaa Allah. We are carrying heavy burden of family on our shoulders; we will be questioned for their misguidance & evil work. That can be overcome by choosing a good Islamic partner.

    “O believers! Protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, overseen by formidable and severe angels, who never disobey whatever Allah orders—always doing as commanded.”[ Quran ch 66  Verse 6]

By Mohammed Asif Ali. #MohammedAsifAli #MdAsifAli